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Sometimes it is difficult for people to keep their mouths shut...most times it is impossible for me to do so!
You and I are in a very "public" industry, and, therefore, when we say something it becomes a little too official.
Generations ago, legend has it that the new Chamber CEO of a major Texas City was enjoying his first full day on the job, and, at a meeting of his Chamber Board, he was asked, "I understand that you have bought a home in one of our satellite cities (I won't give the name), and he replied, yes we have bought a house in XXXXXXXXX (you figure out what Texas metro city has that many letters).
A Board member then asked, well why did you not buy your home here? His response was, "Well, we looked around and the best schools are in XXXXXXXXX."
The next day, as he found himself unemployed by that Chamber, I suspect that he acknowledged how unfortunate his choice of words was.
This story was a legend in our industry when I started as a chamber staffer in the early 70's, but every one of us should accept the important lesson here.
Sometimes, we can give too much information! Because we are quoted by other citizens right after we make an observation, we should always be thoughtful and cautious about our comments, public or private.
You will be often quoted, and sometimes misquoted or misconstrued, even if you just whispered in the ear of one individual.
The old proverb states that "Silence is Golden!" The old proverb is right.
Until you find it necessary to respond to the question or make the statement on behalf of your Chamber, the best approach is that of silence.
We spend a great deal of our time speaking on behalf of positions or actions taken by our Chamber...we should seldom share our personal opinions or insights no matter how appropriate they are.
Your Board decides...you facilitate. Einstein's parrot was never held responsible for the theory of relativity. It could, however, recite it.
As you and I, through action, word, and deed, recite our Board's positions and beliefs...we should keep our own thoughts to ourselves, mumbling them in our auto as we drive to the next meeting alone.
Unless we are asked by our leadership, we should hold our personal opinion hostage, as too often when we release that opinion, those we serve may be harmed and we may lose the respect of those most important to us.
Silence is golden.
We work, we recommend. They decide and we facilitate...but we are facilitating "their decision," and that's the way it should be.
AR
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